220+ Responses to "I Have A Crush On You" Crush Confession

You’re going about your day and then it happens. Someone says it. Those five little words: “I have a crush on you.”

Suddenly your heart skips a beat. Maybe your stomach flips. Maybe you smile uncontrollably. Or maybe you freeze and think, “What the heck do I say now?”

Don’t worry. You’re not alone in that reaction. Whether it’s a total surprise or something you saw coming, figuring out how to respond to this kind of confession can be tricky.

This guide is here to help. We’ll go through every possible situation — whether you feel the same way, you’re unsure, or you’re not interested at all — and we’ll talk about how to reply with honesty, kindness, and confidence.

By the time you’re done reading, you’ll know exactly how to handle this moment without awkwardness, guilt, or missed opportunity.

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220+ Responses to “I Have A Crush On You”

Mutual Feelings

I was really hoping you’d say that. I like you too.
I’ve honestly been crushing on you for a while.
Finally, you said it! I feel the same.
This just made my whole day. I’ve been wanting to tell you too.
You have no idea how happy I am to hear that. I’m into you as well.
Wow, okay, we’re on the same page. That’s a relief.
I didn’t want to assume anything, but I’m so glad to know.
I’ve been catching feelings too.
I didn’t know how to bring it up, but yes, me too.
You just made something that felt impossible feel real.

Excited Surprise

Wait, seriously? That’s amazing!
You just caught me totally off guard, in the best way.
I didn’t expect that at all, but I’m smiling so hard right now.
Whoa, this is the last thing I thought I’d hear today.
Are you being serious? Because this is incredible.
What? No way! That’s actually really exciting.
I didn’t see this coming, but I kind of love it.
That just made my heart skip a beat, not gonna lie.
You just dropped that like it was nothing. I’m shook.
This is such a surprise, but I’m not mad at it.

Playful Flirtation

So, you finally admit it, huh?
Took you long enough. I was starting to wonder.
About time. I’ve been crushing on you since forever.
That’s cute. I might have a tiny crush on you too… maybe.
Careful, saying things like that might make me fall harder.
Guess what? I’m flattered. And maybe a little into you too.
Are you trying to make me blush? Because it’s working.
Oh, we’re confessing now? Let’s go.
Look at you, being all bold and flirty. I like it.
I knew you had taste.

Romantic Acceptance

That’s really sweet. I feel the same way.
I’ve honestly wanted to hear those words from you for a while.
I really like you too. Let’s see where this goes.
I’m so glad you told me. My heart’s kind of racing right now.
Yes. Just yes.
This feels like something special. I’m so in.
I’ve been hoping for this moment.
I’ve been falling for you too. Slowly, deeply.
You saying that makes me feel seen. I like you so much.
That means more to me than you know. I feel the same.

Encouraging Openness

Thank you for telling me. That takes guts.
I appreciate your honesty so much.
That’s really brave of you. Let’s talk more about this.
You being this open makes me respect you even more.
No matter what happens, I’m glad you shared that.
That’s a big thing to admit. I’m honored you trust me with it.
It means a lot that you feel safe enough to say that.
I care about you and I’m glad you opened up.
I really value your honesty right now.
That’s such a vulnerable thing to share and I see you.

Bashful Gratitude

Oh wow… I don’t know what to say. That’s really sweet.
That honestly made me smile so much. Thank you.
That’s kind of adorable. Thank you for telling me.
I’m flattered, really. I didn’t expect that.
I wasn’t ready for that, but I appreciate it so much.
That means a lot. I’m a little shy about stuff like this, honestly.
I’m feeling kind of speechless, in a good way.
That was really unexpected, but I’m touched.
You’ve got me blushing a little over here.
That’s incredibly kind of you to say. Thank you.

Nervous Excitement

Oh wow, I’m kind of freaking out but also really happy.
I don’t even know how to respond right now. This is wild.
I feel all jittery now… this is so unexpected but amazing.
This is both thrilling and terrifying.
I was not ready for this, but I’m glad it happened.
I’m nervous, but this feels exciting.
My stomach’s doing flips. You really just said that.
I’m kind of stunned, but I think I’m smiling like an idiot.
This just turned my whole day upside down in the best way.
I have no idea what happens next, but I’m curious.

Flustered but Happy

You can’t just say that out of nowhere! I’m blushing so hard.
My brain just stopped working for a sec.
Okay, that was a plot twist I didn’t see coming.
I wasn’t ready for that, but wow, I’m happy you told me.
I don’t even know how to respond, but I’m smiling like crazy.
This is flustering in the cutest way possible.
I might need a minute to recover from that surprise.
That caught me off guard in the nicest way.
You’ve got me a little flustered… in a good way.
Did you really just say that? Because I’m kind of melting.

Gentle Letdown

I’m really flattered, but I don’t feel the same way.
That’s such a kind thing to share, but I see you more as a friend.
Thank you for being honest. I want to be honest too — I don’t share the same feelings.
That means a lot, and I hope you know I care about you, just not romantically.
I respect you so much for telling me, even though I don’t feel the same.
I don’t want to lead you on — I think you’re great, just not in that way.
You’re amazing, but I think we’re better as friends.
I hope this doesn’t make things awkward, because I value you a lot.
That was brave of you, and I hope you know I still admire your honesty.
I’m not in the same place emotionally, but I’m truly grateful for your openness.

Affectionate Friend-Zone

That’s really sweet, and I hope this doesn’t hurt, but I see you more as a close friend.
You mean a lot to me, just not in a romantic way.
I love our friendship, and I wouldn’t want to risk losing that.
I care about you deeply, just not in the way you might be hoping.
I feel so lucky to have you in my life, as a friend.
This means a lot, and I hope you know how important you are to me platonically.
I’ve always felt we had a great bond, just not a romantic one.
You’re one of my favorite people, even if it’s not in a crush kind of way.
I don’t want this to make things weird, because I value our friendship a lot.
I admire you so much as a person and friend, and I hope we can stay close.

Respectful Honesty

I really appreciate your honesty, and I want to be honest too — I don’t feel the same way.
That’s so kind of you to share, but I don’t think I’m the right person for you.
Thank you for saying that. I don’t want to lead you on, though, because I don’t feel the same.
I respect you so much for being real with me, and I want to return that honesty.
This is tough to say, but I’m not in the same place emotionally.
I don’t want to give you the wrong idea, so I’ll be upfront — I’m not interested romantically.
I think the world of you, but I don’t have those kinds of feelings.
I really value that you opened up, even though I can’t reciprocate.
You deserve someone who feels that same spark, and I just don’t.
I want to be clear and kind — I don’t share those feelings, but I appreciate your courage.

Gracious Rejection

That took guts to say, and I really admire that, even if I don’t feel the same.
I’m grateful you told me how you feel, and I want to respond with kindness and clarity.
That was such a vulnerable thing to say. I don’t feel the same, but I really appreciate you telling me.
I hope you know how much I respect your honesty, even if my heart’s not in the same place.
You’re wonderful, truly. I just don’t see us that way.
This means a lot to hear, even though I don’t think we’re a match romantically.
I’m honored you’d share that with me. Thank you for trusting me.
I wish I felt the same, but I don’t want to mislead you.
I think you’re amazing, and I hope this doesn’t make things uncomfortable.
I’m touched, and even though I can’t say yes to that feeling, I value the connection we do have.

Need Time to Think

That really caught me off guard — can I take some time to think about it?
I’m not sure how I feel yet, but I want to be honest and figure it out.
This means a lot, and I need a little space to process it properly.
I appreciate you telling me. I just need a moment to think clearly.
That’s something I didn’t expect, and I want to give it real thought.
Can I sit with this for a bit before I give you a real answer?
I’m kind of in shock right now, in a good way — let me think about it.
I don’t want to say the wrong thing, so I hope it’s okay if I take a little time.
I want to be fair to both of us by not rushing how I respond.
This is something I didn’t see coming, and I want to think it over honestly.

Context-Dependent

I think it really depends on where we’re both at in life right now.
That’s something I’ve thought about too, but timing feels tricky.
I like you as a person a lot, but things are kind of complicated for me right now.
I’m flattered, but there are a few things going on in my life that make this hard.
I care about you, but I’m not sure this is the right moment for something romantic.
If things were a little different, I might have said yes without hesitation.
There’s a lot to consider, and I’m not sure where this fits in just yet.
It’s not a no, but it’s also not a yes right now.
You’re great, and I think a lot depends on how things play out from here.
I’m open to talking more, but there’s a lot to unpack on my end.

Surprised and Unsure

Whoa, I really didn’t see that coming.
I’m kind of stunned right now. That’s the last thing I expected to hear.
I honestly don’t know what to say — that was surprising.
You totally caught me off guard, in a big way.
I need a second to process that. Didn’t expect it at all.
Wow, okay, that came out of nowhere.
I’m surprised, and I’m not totally sure how I feel yet.
I never thought you felt that way. Now I’m over here trying to figure out what I think.
My brain’s kind of doing flips right now — that was unexpected.
This just changed the entire tone of my day. I need to sit with it a bit.

Change the Subject

Haha, that’s a bold move. Anyway, have you eaten yet?
Oh wow, okay… So, did you catch the show last night?
That’s a lot to take in. Did you finish that project you mentioned?
Umm… thanks? Hey, I’ve been meaning to ask you something totally random.
Wow, uh, so… how about that weather lately?
Interesting timing. Wanna grab some coffee and talk about literally anything else?
You just dropped that out of nowhere! So, who’s winning the game?
That’s… unexpected. Anyway, back to what we were saying earlier.
I’ll have to process that. Meanwhile, guess who texted me last night?
Thanks for sharing. So, have you seen the new movie that came out?

Deflection with Humor

A crush on me? That’s a bold strategy. Let’s see how it plays out.
Haha, wow. Did you hit your head recently or something?
Me? Are you sure it’s not someone who just looks like me?
You’re joking, right? Because I’ve been practicing my surprised face.
That’s sweet. And now I’m going to pretend I didn’t hear that so I don’t get awkward.
I wasn’t ready for that plot twist in today’s episode of Real Life.
You’re clearly confused. Should I give you a minute to come back to reality?
Let me just process this while also forgetting how to speak.
Well this conversation escalated quickly.
Are we sure this isn’t a dare? I’ve seen this movie before.

Straightforward Rejection

I appreciate your honesty, but I don’t feel the same way.
I’m flattered, but I don’t return those feelings.
Thank you for telling me, but I don’t see you in that way.
I think it’s best to be direct — I’m not interested romantically.
You’re a great person, but I’m not the right match for you.
I respect you a lot, but I don’t want to lead you on.
I don’t feel the same way, and I want to be upfront about that.
I hope this doesn’t hurt, but I’m not into you like that.
I’m glad you shared that, even though I can’t say I feel the same.
I think you deserve someone who’s all in, and I’m not that person.

Mock Dramatic

At last, the stars align. My crush confesses!
This is the moment I’ve been waiting for since the dawn of time.
A crush? On me? Be still, my heart.
You honor me with your affection, noble admirer.
I must retreat to my chamber and write about this in my diary.
I never thought I’d see the day. Someone actually likes me back.
I shall alert the town crier at once.
I’m blushing like a Jane Austen character.
I accept your proclamation, fair suitor.
Does this mean we duel at dawn for my hand?

Sarcastic Play

Wow, shocking. Who doesn’t have a crush on me at this point?
Join the club, there’s a waiting list.
Oh no, not another one. My charm is becoming a problem.
That’s cute. You and literally everyone else.
Great, now I have to hire a bouncer for my heart.
You’re so original with that. Truly groundbreaking stuff.
I had no idea. Just kidding, I totally did.
What gave me away? The overwhelming charisma or the bad jokes?
A crush on me? Bold move. Not recommended.
Ah yes, the classic confession. Right on schedule.

Joking Response

I knew it. My charm is finally working.
A crush? On me? Did I win a bet or something?
Is this a prank? Where’s the camera crew?
Hold on, let me go practice my surprised face in the mirror.
Can’t blame you. I’ve seen me too.
I’d say “same” but that feels too easy.
Dang, now I owe someone five bucks. I told them you’d confess first.
Okay but now what? Do we awkwardly high five or something?
You’re just trying to distract me from doing my laundry, aren’t you?
That was unexpected. You sure you didn’t text the wrong person?

Gratitude + Boundaries

Thank you for being so open with me. I really respect that.
I appreciate your honesty, and I want to be kind in return. I don’t feel the same, but I value you.
That was really brave to share. I care about our connection, even if I don’t feel romantic toward you.
I’m touched that you told me. I hope you know I want to be clear and respectful — I don’t feel the same.
It means a lot that you shared your feelings. I hope we can still keep things respectful and honest.
I’m grateful you trust me enough to say that. I just don’t want to give you the wrong impression.
You’re awesome, and I’m honored you’d say that to me. I just don’t see things that way.
That took courage. I want to be gentle here — I care about you, but not romantically.
I admire your honesty so much. I hope we can navigate this with mutual respect.
Thanks for saying that. I want to be upfront too — I’m not in the same place, but I care about you as a person.

Take a Moment Before Reacting

Breathe First, Speak Later

When someone tells you they have a crush on you, your brain might instantly kick into high gear. You might feel surprised, flattered, nervous, or confused. The best thing you can do in that moment is breathe. You don’t have to reply instantly. It’s okay to take a second, smile, and say something like, “Wow, I wasn’t expecting that.”

It’s Not a Test or a Trap

Remind yourself: you’re not being forced to say yes or no on the spot. This is not a movie scene. It’s a human moment. Real feelings are involved. Taking your time is not rude — it’s respectful to both you and them.

Understand the Context

Who Is Telling You This?

Context changes everything. If your best friend suddenly confesses, it might feel different than if it comes from a coworker, someone in your friend group, or a classmate.

Understanding your existing relationship with this person helps you figure out the right tone and boundaries to strike.

When and Where Did They Say It?

Did they tell you in person, over text, or in a note? Was it in private or public? Were they joking around or being deeply sincere?

If they said it through a text, you have more time to reflect before responding. If it was face-to-face, then body language and tone help you better understand what they mean.

Was It Flirty or Serious?

Sometimes people test the waters by saying things like “I kinda have a crush on you” in a playful way. But if someone looks you in the eye and tells you straight up, they’re probably being serious. Your response should match the tone they set.

Check in With Your Own Feelings

Ask Yourself: Do I Feel the Same Way?

This is the big one. Are you excited to hear this? Have you thought about them in a romantic way before? If your heart did a little happy dance, that’s a strong sign you’re into them too.

Be honest with yourself. You don’t need to decide your future together — just whether you’re interested enough to explore what’s next.

What If You’re Not Sure Yet?

Uncertainty is completely normal. Sometimes you don’t know how you feel until someone says it out loud. Maybe you need a day or two to reflect. That’s fine. You’re not obligated to have an instant emotional download.

What If You Don’t Feel the Same?

If you don’t return the feelings, that’s okay too. You’re not a bad person. What matters is how you express that. More on that in a moment.

If You Have a Crush on Them Too

What to Say When You Feel the Same Way

This is the best-case scenario. If the feeling is mutual, let them know in a warm, open way. You can say something like:

“Honestly, I’ve had a crush on you too.”
“That makes me really happy. I’ve felt the same.”
“Wow, I didn’t expect you to say that… but I’m really glad you did.”

You don’t have to jump straight into dating talk. Just expressing that you share the feeling opens the door to take the next step together naturally.

What to Do Next

Suggest spending more time together in a new way. Maybe go for coffee, take a walk, or plan something fun together. Ease into it. You don’t need to map out a relationship right away.

If You’re Unsure How You Feel

How to Buy Time Without Being Distant

If you’re unsure, be honest without being cold. Say something like:

“That means a lot. I wasn’t expecting it, and I’d like a little time to think.”
“Wow. I’m flattered and surprised. I want to be honest — I need a minute to figure out how I feel.”

This response respects their vulnerability while giving you space to reflect.

Ask Gentle Questions

If you feel comfortable, asking questions might help you understand where they’re coming from. For example:

“How long have you felt this way?”
“What made you decide to tell me now?”

You’re not interrogating them — just trying to understand their feelings better, which can help you understand yours too.

If You Don’t Feel the Same

How to Let Them Down with Grace

Rejection doesn’t have to hurt when it’s done kindly. You can say something like:

“Thank you for telling me. I really respect your honesty. I just don’t feel the same way, and I wanted to be honest with you too.”
“That means a lot, and I think you’re great. But I see us more as friends.”

Being clear is kinder in the long run than being vague or giving false hope.

Respect Their Courage

Even if you’re not interested, admire the fact that they put themselves out there. It takes guts. A little appreciation goes a long way.

Sample Responses for Different Scenarios

If You’re Interested

“I was hoping you’d say that.”
“You seriously just made my week.”
“Finally! I’ve been waiting to hear that.”

If You’re Unsure

“I’m honestly surprised. I need a little time to sort through my thoughts.”
“I didn’t expect that, but I’m really touched. Can we talk again soon?”

If You’re Not Interested

“Thank you for being open with me. I don’t feel the same way, but I want to be honest.”
“That’s really kind of you to say. I hope this doesn’t make things weird between us.”

If the Person Is a Close Friend

Friendship adds complexity. You might feel scared of ruining the connection, or you might feel guilt if you don’t feel the same. Either way, handle it with care.

If you want to preserve the friendship, say:

“I value our friendship so much, and I don’t want to hurt you. But I don’t see you that way.”

Or, if you’re open to exploring something more:

“I’ve never thought of us that way, but now I’m curious what this could mean.”

If the Person Is a Coworker or Classmate

These situations can be delicate. Keep things respectful and clear. You can say:

“I appreciate your honesty, but I think it’s important to keep things professional.”
“You’re a great person, but I don’t feel comfortable mixing work and personal stuff.”

You don’t have to justify your boundary — just be polite and firm.

What Not to Do

Avoid Joking or Laughing It Off

Even if you’re nervous or caught off guard, avoid turning it into a joke. That can feel like rejection even if you don’t mean it that way.

Don’t Lie to Spare Their Feelings

Being kind doesn’t mean being dishonest. If you’re not into them, say so. It might sting a little at first, but it’s better than dragging it out or giving mixed signals.

Don’t Ghost or Avoid the Conversation

Ignoring someone after a confession is one of the worst responses. Be respectful enough to reply, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Read the Room and Respect Their Emotions

Watch their body language. If they look nervous or vulnerable, be extra gentle. If they seem playful, match their energy. Reading their vibe will help you choose the right response.

Moving Forward After the Confession

If You’re Starting Something New

Let things develop naturally. Go slow. Enjoy the new dynamic. You don’t need to rush into a full relationship right away.

If You Don’t Want Things to Change

Tell them that. Reassure them if you value the friendship. Say, “I still care about you and want us to be cool. I hope this doesn’t make things weird.”

Setting Boundaries If Needed

If someone doesn’t take no for an answer, it’s okay to set firmer boundaries. Be direct. Say:

“I’ve already shared how I feel. Please respect that.”
“I’m not comfortable continuing this conversation if you’re not respecting my answer.”

Your comfort matters too.

Embrace the Opportunity for Growth

Whether this moment leads to romance or not, it can bring clarity. It’s a chance to reflect on your own feelings, grow your communication skills, and strengthen your relationships.

Conclusion

Navigating a crush confession can be exciting, nerve-wracking, or even downright awkward—but with the right words, you can handle it like a pro. Whether you’re into them or not, the key is to stay authentic and respectful. Hopefully, these 220+ responses gave you the clarity and creativity you need to keep the conversation flowing. And if you’re dealing with light-hearted or confusing texts like “Hahaha,” check out our 220+ Chill Responses to “Hahaha” Text – For Any Situation for even more witty ways to reply!

FAQs

Q. Is it okay to say “I need time to think”?
Yes. You’re not obligated to have a perfect answer right away. Taking time shows maturity.

Q. Can I still be friends with someone who has a crush on me?
Absolutely. With clear communication and mutual respect, friendships can survive and even grow stronger.

Q. What if I change my mind later?
That’s normal. Just be honest if your feelings evolve and have another open conversation when the time is right.

Q. Should I pretend I feel the same to avoid hurting them?
No. Kindness is important, but honesty matters more in the long run. Mixed signals can lead to more confusion and pain.

Q. What if I feel pressured by their confession?
You should never feel pressured. If someone’s confession feels overwhelming or aggressive, it’s okay to step back and set boundaries.

220+ Responses to “I Have A Crush On You” Crush Confession